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Purfect Sunday

by Monti Wheeler

How to Dress Like You Actually Like Yourself | How to Find Your Personal Style This Fall

October 11, 2026
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Ever stood in front of a full closet and felt like you had nothing to wear? It’s almost never a shopping problem. It’s a style problem, and the good news is you already have more of a style than you think. This episode is all about finding your personal style and making getting dressed feel easy again.

In this episode, Monti walks through eight simple steps on how to find your personal style, figure out what you actually like, build your fall wardrobe around it without starting over, and wear it with confidence, even when it feels like a bit much.

You’ll leave with three style words, a closet that works together, and a shopping plan that stops impulse buys. Take what’s useful and leave the rest.

In this episode of The Purfect Sunday Podcast:

  • Why you have nothing to wear — and why buying more never fixes it
  • The two-week trick — how to spot the style you already have
  • The three-word method — the viral stylist tip that teaches you how to find your personal style
  • The closet edit — what to keep without throwing everything out
  • How to look put together on a budget — the cheap fix most women skip
  • Wearing it anyway — what to do when you feel overdressed

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I'm a lifestyle blogger, adventure seeker & full-time Mommy. I have a passion for all things beauty-related, fitness, fashion, travel, and healthy living. Purfect Sunday is where I share everything I learn along the way.

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* ¼ cup fresh lemon juice
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* 1 teaspoon Dijon mustard
* ¼ teaspoon sea salt, more to taste
* Freshly ground black pepper
* ½ teaspoon honey, or maple syrup, optional
* ¼ to ⅓ cup extra-virgin olive oil
* ½ teaspoon fresh or dried thyme, optional
  • Here are 4 major benefits of ice rolling:

1. Reduces Puffiness and Inflammation
The cold temperature constricts blood vessels, which helps decrease swelling — especially around the eyes, jawline, and cheeks.

Great for morning de-puffing or calming post-facial redness.

2. Boosts Circulation for a Natural Glow
Ice rolling stimulates blood flow to the skin’s surface, leading to a brighter, more radiant complexion.

Think of it as a natural glow boost without makeup.

3. Tightens Skin and Minimizes Pores
Cold therapy can temporarily tighten skin, making pores appear smaller and improving overall skin texture.

Perfect for prepping your face before makeup for a smooth, flawless finish.

4. Relieves Facial Tension and Soothes Headaches
Ice rolling across the forehead, jaw, and temples can ease muscle tension and even help relieve headache pressure.

Doubles as a quick, calming self-care ritual during stressful days. 🤍
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