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Purfect Sunday

by Monti Wheeler

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Weekly Podcast

The Purfect Sunday Podcast

For women who want to grow as people, without pretending they don't care how they show up.

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About the show

I'm Monti — not an expert, just a woman paying attention and figuring things out. Each Sunday morning, I show up with a story, a lesson I learned the hard way, and one thing to take into your week.

Real talk from one woman to another — about mindset, healing, attachment, money, boundaries, the soft life, the mother wound, and the small beauty habits that genuinely change how you move through the world.

Because caring about your inner life and caring about how you show up aren't opposites. They're the same project.

New episodes every Sunday morning. Pour your coffee, settle in, and hit subscribe.

Latest episodes

Be the Woman Who Just Does the Thing

July 4, 2026

Be the Woman Who Just Does the Thing

Think about the best things that have ever happened to you — the trips, the nights you still tell stories about, the leaps that changed your life. I’d bet they all have one thing in common: you didn’t overthink them. Now think about the flip side — the dinner you didn’t go to, the trip […]

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Why You Really Spend — and How to Stop the Guilt Spiral

June 27, 2026

Why You Really Spend — and How to Stop the Guilt Spiral

Ever bought something you didn’t really need, felt amazing for about an hour, and then watched that good feeling quietly turn into guilt? The buy, the high, the crash — and then the little speech you give yourself: why did I do that? This week is about the emotional side of money. Not budgeting or […]

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The Lessons You Keep From an Imperfect Dad

June 17, 2026

The Lessons You Keep From an Imperfect Dad

Today we’re talking about the lessons you keep from an imperfect dad. Because not every dad was a good dad. Mine wasn’t great— and this Father’s Day episode is about what you can still carry forward when the man who raised you got a lot of it wrong. I’m sharing seven lessons that shaped the […]

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How to Feel Like Yourself Again This Summer

June 13, 2026

How to Feel Like Yourself Again This Summer

Have you ever caught a glimpse of yourself in a window and thought, just for a second — where did she go? Not because you didn’t recognize her. Because you barely did — like the woman in the glass was a slightly more tired, slightly more careful, slightly more muted version of someone you used […]

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Becoming the Main Character of Your Own Life

June 6, 2026

Becoming the Main Character of Your Own Life

On this episode of The Purfect Sunday Podcast, Monti is talking about main character energy: what it actually means, the quiet supporting-character patterns we all slip into without noticing, and the small but deliberate moves that hand the lead back to you. This isn’t about narcissism, or pretending your life is a movie, or becoming […]

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The most important $27 I ever spent taught me why I overspend.

You buy something you didn’t really need. You feel amazing for about an hour. Then the good feeling quietly turns into guilt… and the little speech starts: why did I do that?

This week’s episode of the Purfect Sunday Podcast is about the emotional side of money — not budgeting or spreadsheets, the feelings underneath what and why we buy. 💛

Here’s what I learned the hard way:
→ Most spending was never about the thing. It’s about a feeling we’re trying to change — stress, sadness, boredom, loneliness, feeling invisible.

→ Breaking the cycle isn’t about white-knuckling your way through life never buying anything nice. It’s naming the emotion driving the need to shop, and putting time between the urge and the buy.

This week’s challenge: next time you feel the urge to buy something you weren’t planning on, pause before you check out and ask one question — what am I feeling right now?
comment “Spend” and I’ll send you the link 

The most important $27 I ever spent taught me why I overspend.

You buy something you didn’t really need. You feel amazing for about an hour. Then the good feeling quietly turns into guilt… and the little speech starts: why did I do that?

This week’s episode of the Purfect Sunday Podcast is about the emotional side of money — not budgeting or spreadsheets, the feelings underneath what and why we buy. 💛

Here’s what I learned the hard way:
→ Most spending was never about the thing. It’s about a feeling we’re trying to change — stress, sadness, boredom, loneliness, feeling invisible.

→ Breaking the cycle isn’t about white-knuckling your way through life never buying anything nice. It’s naming the emotion driving the need to shop, and putting time between the urge and the buy.

This week’s challenge: next time you feel the urge to buy something you weren’t planning on, pause before you check out and ask one question — what am I feeling right now?
comment “Spend” and I’ll send you the link 

The most important $27 I ever spent taught me why I overspend.

You buy something you didn’t really need. You feel amazing for about an hour. Then the good feeling quietly turns into guilt… and the little speech starts: why did I do that?

This week’s episode of the Purfect Sunday Podcast is about the emotional side of money — not budgeting or spreadsheets, the feelings underneath what and why we buy. 💛

Here’s what I learned the hard way:
→ Most spending was never about the thing. It’s about a feeling we’re trying to change — stress, sadness, boredom, loneliness, feeling invisible.

→ Breaking the cycle isn’t about white-knuckling your way through life never buying anything nice. It’s naming the emotion driving the need to shop, and putting time between the urge and the buy.

This week’s challenge: next time you feel the urge to buy something you weren’t planning on, pause before you check out and ask one question — what am I feeling right now?
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comment “Spend” and I’ll send you the link The most important $27 I ever spent taught me why I overspend. You buy something you didn’t really need. You feel amazing for about an hour. Then the good feeling quietly turns into guilt… and the little speech starts: why did I do that? This week’s episode of the Purfect Sunday Podcast is about the emotional side of money — not budgeting or spreadsheets, the feelings underneath what and why we buy. 💛 Here’s what I learned the hard way: → Most spending was never about the thing. It’s about a feeling we’re trying to change — stress, sadness, boredom, loneliness, feeling invisible. → Breaking the cycle isn’t about white-knuckling your way through life never buying anything nice. It’s naming the emotion driving the need to shop, and putting time between the urge and the buy. This week’s challenge: next time you feel the urge to buy something you weren’t planning on, pause before you check out and ask one question — what am I feeling right now?
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Your life can look completely different 6 months from now if you get strict with yourself and lock-in 🔒
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Your life can look completely different 6 months from now if you get strict with yourself and lock-in 🔒
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We officially have 6 months left in 2026 — and no, you are not behind.

Six months is enough time to lock in. To become the girl who drinks the water, reads the books, moves her body, takes care of her hair, skin and nails, and actually dresses like she’s the main character. Six months is enough time to glow up in any area of your life you’ve been putting off.

And here’s your reminder: money spent on your health, learning, and feeling your best — is never wasted. That’s not splurging. That’s investing in the woman you’re becoming.
Half the year is still yours. Let’s not waste it. 🤍
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We officially have 6 months left in 2026 — and no, you are not behind. Six months is enough time to lock in. To become the girl who drinks the water, reads the books, moves her body, takes care of her hair, skin and nails, and actually dresses like she’s the main character. Six months is enough time to glow up in any area of your life you’ve been putting off. And here’s your reminder: money spent on your health, learning, and feeling your best — is never wasted. That’s not splurging. That’s investing in the woman you’re becoming. Half the year is still yours. Let’s not waste it. 🤍
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My idea of a Perfect Sunday
My idea of a Perfect Sunday
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My idea of a Perfect Sunday
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Note to self: do a better job of romanticizing the everyday
Note to self: do a better job of romanticizing the everyday
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Note to self: do a better job of romanticizing the everyday
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